You can do anything, not everything.

Life is unpredictable. No one, absolutely no one can tell you how long you are going to live. Maybe 5 years. Maybe 5 months. Maybe 5 days. Maybe 5 hours or even 5 minutes. So you see, there is no expiry date given with life. Its a matter of surprise for all of us. But I will give you a spoiler, we will all die at some point. So, no matter how long you live, remember to live, not just survive. 
Our generation is so focused on the future that we forget about the time that is passing now. I know its cliché but think about it. Its good to plan ahead of time but we are so engrossed in the future that we forget the things we have now. The people we have now. You might have a long life but some of the people around you won’t. Your parents, your grandparents, your aunts, uncles, etc wont be here for as long as you will be. Its hurtful but its true. They have limited time. Even few people you expect to be here forever won’t be there cerebrating your success later in your life. So, be there for them. Spend time with them. Be grateful for them.
We all use future as a way to escape from the present. But sometimes, we just indulge so much into the future that we start Fantasising things. We start expecting things. We start overthinking things. This leads to anxiety, depression and even schizophrenia in some cases. Why stress over something that is not even constant? The only thing you can do is try your best and trust God. You cannot control the future. You stressing over it, doubting yourself, comparing yourself to others will NOT change the outcome. Just remember, you can do anything but not everything. 

No one has seen the future and its not even confirmed that it exists for you or for me. So, stop worrying over it. The time is now. Do what you like right now. Stop waiting for the right moment, just do it now. Take time to be grateful, to love, to pray, to laugh, to be kind and to live.
You are so young but why are you so scared? Live the way you want because life is this moment that you are living, not the one nobody’s sure of. Stop worrying about the future so much. He's already working on it. The things you can't control are the things controlled by Him.

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