Its okay to not have a dream like others



Its discouraging when you see your friends, cousins and even your siblings having big goals and working hard to achieve them whereas you are just moving along life. One thing you should know- It is completely okay to not have goals and dreams. You'll get them when the time is right. I believe everyone has a purpose. Remember you are here for a reason. The same God who made this earth and all the beautiful creatures in it, had the thought of creating you so He must have had a valid reason for it. He didn't create you just because He was bored, now did he? of course not. You need to understand that. You might not know what your purpose is in life right now and that is totally fine. Some people get their goals at a young age while some at an older age. I am 16 right now. At this age, Jeon Jungkook debuted as a member of BTS (a South Korean boyband which now has global domination). He found his purpose at a really young age and started working towards it and eventually debuted. On the other side, there are people who found their purpose at a really old age such as the KFC founder Colonel Sanders who started KFC at the age of 62. So, you see there is no age limit to finding your purpose. You will eventually find it but by then start finding hobbies and do what you are passionate about. It might not be your purpose but at least you'll have fun and enjoy life.
Trust me when I say everything is predetermined. Everything and everyone you encounter has a reason for coming into your life. And I assure you what is meant for you will come to you. There is nothing you can do to ruin it. And when you look at you past, you'll see all the little experiences led you to where you are today. Its all destiny. I know some people don't believe in it but I completely do. A few years earlier, my friend was about to go to New York for university studies. She aspired to become a musician and she knew there were a lot of opportunities there for her but the only thing is she was very insecure about her nose and this made her self-conscious. However, she had to cancel the plan due to an urgent family issue. She was depressed for months about failing to achieve her dream of going to NY. this dark period made her so self-conscious that she decided to get a nose surgery done. she did it and two years late, now she just came back from NY and she is literally the most confident she has ever been. She made so many contacts there and is currently working towards her goals furthermore. Had she not experienced depression and hit rockbottom, she would not be able to have gained this confident that helped her make so many contacts and even perform so many gigs so beautifully. This is experience has led her to the person she is today. So, what I mean is everything that happens will ultimately lead you to your purpose. You don't need to force it. Just believe in Him and do what makes you happy.

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